Greetings, dear readers!
Today, let’s discuss a problem that has been gradually and very subtly approaching us over the past few years, like a ninja in silent and soft slippers, and has finally gripped us tightly. This new scourge knows no age boundaries and affects everyone, both the elderly and the young. Meet the epidemic of loneliness!
Loneliness in the 21st century is paradoxical: it seems we are surrounded by technologies that allow us to stay connected 24/7. But in reality, many of us feel like Robinson Crusoe on a deserted island, only without Friday and coconuts. Here’s a simple example; you’ve probably witnessed similar situations yourself.
Four young women walk into a bar. They chat non-stop, exchange glances, gestures, and share stories from their lives. It is clear they know each other well. But as soon as they sit down at the table, all four immediately pull out their smartphones and start actively typing, losing the thread of conversation and disconnecting from the real world. The social contact that was clearly visible when they walked in suddenly disappeared. Their faces became impenetrable, eye contact vanished, and the conversation stopped. Smartphones in a moment destroyed this lovely company—this is a vivid example of what Professor Turkle calls “alone together” in her book of the same name.
Studies show that young people suffer from loneliness no less than the elderly. For example, students often feel like kittens in a box forgotten in a warehouse. Despite an active social life at universities and on social networks, it still feels like no one understands you. Sound familiar?
Elderly people, often imagined sitting on benches and feeding pigeons, actually experience an acute lack of communication. Their children have grown up, neighbors have moved away, and friends, unfortunately, do not get younger. Psychologists claim that the lack of social connections affects health as badly as smoking. So if you have a grandmother or grandfather, let them know you are there—it could extend their life!
Let’s add some humor to brighten up this gloomy topic. Imagine loneliness as an evil virus for which there is no vaccine. What to do? Invent your own prevention methods! For example:
NSP offers various webinars and meetings where people can learn about new ways to maintain health, study their bodies, and, importantly, meet others who share their interests. Imagine attending a webinar and finding a whole community of people ready to discuss the latest health techniques and share their experiences with you. Who knows, you might find new friends or even business partners among them.
The epidemic of loneliness is not just a buzzword but a real problem that people of all ages face. While technology is helpful, it cannot replace live communication. So let’s spend less time on our phones and more time with real people. Attend meetings and webinars, such as those offered by NSP, and you will see that the path to health can be both social and enjoyable.